Friday, September 3, 2010

Breathing Easier, School Options

With my oldest daughter starting her senior year on Tuesday, and my youngest daughter already in school, I am breathing easier these days. I am really looking forward to homeschooling Caroline and her younger sister Jane together this fall. I actually really like the control I have over what my kids are learning, being sure that they are reading classic books, moving ahead in math more quickly, and helping them to learn at their own pace. I love history and science and I find that when they learn without all the stressors of being in "school" they are more relaxed and enjoy learning about the world a lot more. I think that is why my kids do things like write their own books and the like because they equate reading and writing with fun instead of drudgery. Homeschooling is not for every mom or every kid, but if it works, it is wonderful. I will be sad when I will finally put away my "teacher" hat someday. Time flies by so quickly, as evidenced by the fact that our oldest will be off to college next year. Wasn't she just five, creating her own "computer" out of a cardboard box? Playing dress up on a daily basis? Begging me to read to her one more toddler book for the hundredth time?

An important note: if you wish to homeschool your bp child, just know that unless they are mostly stable, this may not work well. Find the right med mix first before you try this unless you have no other good options, and then I would say to enlist the help of another "teacher" in the form of a tutor for certain subjects, or enrolling in an online school so you can keep on task as much as possible. And you can stretch school into the summer if you lose a lot of time during the more unstable periods of the fall and spring.


2 comments:

  1. Hi Megan-
    I read all your blogs like a novel over this weekend. Thanks so much for sharing your journey- especially for us new to this reality. I honestly feel like I am just really getting my head together about this diagnosis- we started this struggle about 9 months ago with depression. I am wishing you the best of luck with your children's education this year. I know I am very anxious about my daughter starting school Tuesday...

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  2. Erin, I am honored you would take the time to read everything. That is quite a lot of reading! I hope your daughter does well this year too. School is such a stressor! I just wrote a note to one of her homeschool coop teachers explaining about her bipolar disorder. That is always a risk. You never know how a teacher will respond.

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