Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Funny Chance Meeting

I walked into the counseling office today for the weekly phone conference with Caroline and her counselor at Meridell, to find two of my good friends in the waiting room. They were there for different reasons, one was having her kid tested for educational reasons, and the other for counseling, I surmised. It is amazing how many of my friends have seen or are seeing counselors, (or need to be in counseling). Life is stressful, and our family spent the last seven years or so in counseling.

I have walked with more than one friend through the revelation of adultery and all of its aftermath, or husbands addicted to pornography, or scarred by childhood abuse. None of my close friends have any illusions of idyllic lives experienced without unexpected heartbreak or even tragedy. If you live long enough, something will break. So we are all broken people, but many don't acknowledge the brokenness or have ways of "coping" that only lead to more destruction in some form. I am thankful for skilled counselors and psychologists who help mend broken people and relationships.

2 comments:

  1. AMEN! Your yougest and my oldest were in the car on Sunday talking about counseling when mine asked what counseling was. I defined it and your youngest agreed with the definition (she should know the definition by now when she hears it!) and on they went. It was sweet.

    Mine is SO EXCITED about camp next week she can hardly stand it!!!!! Let me know if you need any help in that regard.

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  2. I just found your blog. I am also raising a daughter with bipolar, though she's only 10. We have not found the right med mix for her yet and we get discouraged. I started blogging in an effort to keep my own sanity. Its comforting to find another fighting the good fight.

    Jean

    http://accidentalexpert.blogspot.com

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